Whether you are spending Valentine’s Day with a loved one or alone, there are a few things you probably want to avoid in your search for that “feeling of love.” Hollywood movies and television commercials for jewelers teach us that there is nothing better than spending Valentine’s Day with the man or woman of our dreams. As such, many of us spend our days searching for something to make up for what we feel we should be feeling. However, if you’re planning to do one of the following for Valentine’s Day in search of what those commercials are pedaling for, chances are you’re going to be disappointed.

1. Dinner at “THE” Restaurant: In most cities, there is usually a restaurant (or perhaps a few) where prospective Casanovas take their loved ones. While this may seem like a good idea, the problem is that the restaurant will likely be crowded, the staff will be stressed, and the cooks are less likely to serve your food as they would on a less busy day. Instead of dinner at a cliché restaurant, try something a little different. Bring a lunch to take out to a drive-in. Order take-out food at home. While it may not sound all that romantic, chances are you’ll end up a lot less frustrated if you ignore that call to get out.

2. Romantic movie at the Cineplex: When couples run out of things to do, the first thing they seem to take is the romantic movie that is now being screened in local cinema. No matter how many negative reviews or how cliche the trailers are, you just might find yourself there this Valentine’s Day. One piece of advice: don’t do it. If it’s not a movie that you were already interested in before Valentine’s Day, then there’s no reason to suffer from it just because it’s February 14th.

3. Lonely trip to the bar: For those spending Valentine’s Day alone, taking a trip to the local pub to see the dating scene will likely prove a disappointment. Instead of spending your V-Day at the bar, invite a couple of single friends over for dinner at a local café or movie night at home. You won’t be alone and you will really enjoy your evening instead of searching for something at the bar that you probably won’t find.

4. Get angry: You just received your Valentine’s gift from your partner and it is a bar stool. Safe. You wanted a bar stool, but not for Valentine’s Day, right? Instead of getting angry, laugh and maybe later explain that for Valentine’s Day all you hope for is a little more affection and attention.

5. Romantic picnic: While this might work in some places, this idea is often touted on “to-do” lists that revolve around Valentine’s Day. There is only one problem. It’s winter! If you opt for the picnic, make sure it is an “indoor picnic.” While it may not be that novel, at least you won’t risk losing a toe to hypothermia.

The most important thing to remember is that Valentine’s Day is a day like any other. If you spend every day doing the things you want to do, you will have absolutely no reason to put so much emphasis on Valentine’s Day or any other day of the calendar year.

Valentine’s Day No-Nos: 5 Things Not to Do on Valentine’s Day

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