I once asked a guy who was head over heels in love with a girl, “Why are you so head over heels in love with this lady?” “Oh! She is very beautiful,” he said. So, I asked her again, “what is it that makes her so beautiful to you?” Confused and in a stammering voice, he replied, “I… I really can’t say. I feel so attracted to her, but you see Theo, there’s something like a magnetic force that compels me to be with her always.” . The problem is that I can’t pin down exactly what makes her beautiful. Oh yes, but I’m sure she’s too beautiful. Isn’t that right, Theo? Not knowing what to say, I spontaneously replied: “That’s all, friend!”

When I was in college, I would often overhear my roommates discussing how their female classmates looked in the room. They always argued saying, “Getty is beautiful.” But another will say: “no!, she is pretty”. Still, the third friend would protest strongly: “Getty is just cute, and not beautiful.” As I listened to all these confused friends, I realized that there is a common denominator in the way they all view their ladies: there is something about their ladies that seems to charm them.

In my attempt to decipher this confusing aspect of beauty, I discovered that in addition to unusual external beauty, there are many other things that ladies are endowed with that win the hearts of men. In fact, it enlightened me when I suddenly remembered what my Sunday school tutor once said about Jacob’s two wives in the Bible. This is what he actually said: “Rachel was beautiful and well favored, but Leah had soft eyes.” I remember asking him what he meant or, better yet, the Bible when he says, “Leah had soft eyes.”

He patiently explained, “When you ask any married or mature man, they will attest that beauty is vain. But there are many other things that make people happy and happy. Apart from striking physical beauty, there are other things. that are not easily seen that make them attractive. These are the ones Leah had.” “You see,” she continued, “on Saturdays, it’s not the most attractive ladies who get married. If it was just physical beauty, then these ladies would be married a long time ago.”

I have come to realize that what really wins the hearts of men are the “soft eyed” qualities of women. I would like to underline the various things that make up the “soft-eyed” nature of ladies that enchants men. With this acquisition of revealed secrets, I hope that men will now easily identify those discreet things that make them “madly” love their women. Let’s go over them now!

1. Beauty emanating from the sanguine nature of a woman.

Most men are subconsciously attracted to a woman’s strength that matches their weakness. A woman who is optimistic by temperament is naturally easy to spot even in a crowd because she is adorable. They are loved by men because:

– They become friends easily and love truly.

– always have a sweet spirit, easily forgiving those who hurt them, knowing well that everyone has faults and mistakes, and is quick to sincerely apologize when they offend others. Why would no man want to be with such a person?

– They are full of life, they exhibit a great taste for fashion, always looking good and sweet, making all men want to be with them.

Due to their charming nature, men feel comfortable in them. They, being sexually aggressive and generally inviting, drive their men crazy.

2. Beauty emanating from the angry nature of a woman.

By their nature of making things happen, angry women believe they can do whatever they set their minds to. As energetic and highly productive women, they help with household finances which makes them highly appreciated by men. When in love with a guy, their tenacious attitude makes them hold on tight and stubborn, even when their desired men resist or avoid them, but they don’t let go, trying all the romantic moves to make the men feel special and needed.

When they finally win the hearts of their men, the men love them for their boldness and confidence.

3. Beauty that emanates from the melancholic nature of women.

A woman with a melancholic temperament is truly charming. She is able to make her husband literally run home, ignoring all of her friends at her work just to test her expert cook. She really understands the saying, “the way to a man’s heart is through food.” She keeps her man’s house well organized and self-disciplined. Her beauty even enchants her man’s friends due to her wonderful hosting skills when they visit her, which makes her man always happy just to be around her. Her extreme loyalty to her man attracts much adoration.

As a frugal woman, she spends wisely and knows how to manage money no matter how much money she has or is given. She is superlatively romantic and her moods are as noticeable as the bright morning star. In bed, she totally prefers the quality of her sexual life to the quantity. She is an exciting and satisfying love match. What inner beauty!

4. Beauty emanating from the phlegmatic nature of a woman.

The source of her beauty radiates from her following attributes:

– she is very attentive, always thinking about her man, what his needs may be and tries to help. Her man also tends to show her a lot of love, care and becomes very intimate with her.

– his peaceful demeanor makes his home peaceful and always welcoming.

– she has her fervent passion to gratify her man using the technique of never insisting that things be done her way.

– she maintains a deep and long-lasting relationship, exhibiting an attitude that says, “Man! Once I’m yours, I’m yours forever.” In fact, she is truly loyal to her man. With her, a man who is in love with her hardly gets jealous when he is with other guys. He really trusts her. She has a knack for staying in a difficult and stormy relationship long after most women have given up. She will be there even in difficult times.

– He hardly gets angry and has this propensity to absorb emotional pain and still maintain his commitment in his relationship.

Throughout the advice, you will have noticed that I used the strengths of the four main types of temperament to make you understand the beauty that wins a man’s heart forever. Yes, you can win your man’s heart forever, because at least one of the above four beauties is associated with any woman and is inborn and naturally exhibited. So women, you have what it takes to keep your men forever. Use them, use them. develop them. improve them. Don’t fill yourself with self-pity. You have tender eyes!

Always remember: physical beauty can attract a man to come for you, but it is the real, inner, innate and natural beauty that keeps the man forever.